Whaaaat! This hurts. A little.

[5GENIDN]

Hot take. Your need to broadcast your feelings is the weird part of all if this, not my lifestyle. Your judgement of me is a reflection of yourself. Oftentimes out own judgement of others is just a reflection of one's own insecurities.

I've never posted a picture of myself or anyone in my life. Hence discreet. In my community (and theirs) there is no knowledge being passed around. I'm not in my local coffee shop with anyone but my family. Yes. Discrete. Talking about it with a bunch of strangers on the internet I'll never meet doesn't change anything at all.

I actually don't really care what anyone thinks. My intention in this life is to live it to the fullest. When I was a teenager I had a sign on my door that said "Grab life by the Beans" and that's what I do. I work hard and play hard. I have a long and storied career in QA and Compliance. I also own 2 successful businesses. I coach youth sports. I travel. I love cars and trucks. I play multiple instruments. I train MMA. I wake up every day with a burning desire to live. I think that even if I had 200 years on this earth, I'd still never be able to accomplish half of what I want to accomplish. This journey is a gift brother. Do some introspection and figure out why some stranger on the internet kicking life's ass is bothering you so much.

So what if I want to play with grown, consenting women? Why does that matter to you and cause such a visceral reaction? What is that saying about you? Your moral judgement and idea that you're somehow more capable or intelligent than me ("you wouldn't understand") is actually what is screaming insecurity.

I don't live my life for you or anyone else but myself and my family. I'm not insecure. I'm comfortable and confident and happy to the core. It took me a long time to get this way because the haters are EVERYWHERE and sometimes the weight of that can be massive on a young man's shoulders. Don't let it turn you into one of "them"

"Your need to broadcast your feelings is the weird part of all if this, not my lifestyle."

You really are missing my point..... IT should not matter what I think of your lifestyle....

We good there?

BUT YOU keep throwing your lifestyle choice out here in the public venue that is suppose to be about vehicles.

IF you were being discrete I would NOT EVEN KNOW about your choices. Why do you find it necessary to keep bring them up? It is your business NOT MINE... I only pointed out my opinion to point out that not everyone is celebratory and fawning over your choices which it appears to me is the only rational for posting it over and over. Unless of course you have some ulterior motive that is not readily visible.

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[not on the rug]

"Your need to broadcast your feelings is the weird part of all if this, not my lifestyle."

You really are missing my point..... IT should not matter what I think of your lifestyle....

We good there?

BUT YOU keep throwing your lifestyle choice out here in the public venue that is suppose to be about vehicles.

IF you were being discrete I would NOT EVEN KNOW about your choices. Why do you find it necessary to keep bring them up? It is your business NOT MINE... I only pointed out my opinion to point out that not everyone is celebratory and fawning over your choices which it appears to me is the only rational for posting it over and over. Unless of course you have some ulterior motive that is not readily visible.

Again...it's weird that you think I'm talking about my life so people fawn over me. It's even weirder that you think I have an ulterior motive.

People aren't out here living their lives in order to make you jealous or plotting your demise because they are out to get you somehow with an ulterior motive. These paranoid delusions are likely holding you back in other aspects of your life.

I'm sorry that the events and experiences in your life that brought you into these thought patters have occurred, but you don't have to keep feeding them. I recommend a book called "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself" to get you started on your healing journey. My own brother struggled with this for many years. The world is not out to get you dude. I promise.

My reason for talking about it in this thread (I know the butthurt is about to flow, but I'll say it anyway) was to be lighthearted about my disdain for the 2 door 6g Bronco. I find them repulsive to the eye. I joke that I need the 4 doors for more women but the truth is that I feel like Ford greatly missed the mark on the 2 door and I think they look stupid.

 

[ducksface]

What is weird is that someone cant take the first peel off of the onion of possibilities of having a sticker like that.
The sticker is not to proclaim what hill you'll die on.
The sticker is not to try to sway those around you to join in your mania/cult.
(That's two layers)

It's there as as rye humor.
Rye being the slight provocation that leads a person to think of how something stated as bad is actually a bit of a boost to your small moment behind that vehicle...because you realize someone is being cute or rye or silly or flippant, just.for.you.
If you realize;
Contemptuous, shared misery, psychosis;
You're the prblem.

It takes a genuine sadness to not be able to peel a statement back, to not be able to extrapolate a not so deep meaning...or it comes from having the very worst view of life imaginable...or the worst education...

Some of you really think
"My dumb kid can whip your honor student's ass"
Sticker
Is an open threat worthy of a call to police.

Would you be antagonized if there really wasn't a
Baby On Board?

 

[5GENIDN]

Again...it's weird that you think I'm talking about my life so people fawn over me. It's even weirder that you think I have an ulterior motive.

People aren't out here living their lives in order to make you jealous or plotting your demise because they are out to get you somehow with an ulterior motive. These paranoid delusions are likely holding you back in other aspects of your life.

I'm sorry that the events and experiences in your life that brought you into these thought patters have occurred, but you don't have to keep feeding them. I recommend a book called "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself" to get you started on your healing journey. My own brother struggled with this for many years. The world is not out to get you dude. I promise.

My reason for talking about it in this thread (I know the butthurt is about to flow, but I'll say it anyway) was to be lighthearted about my disdain for the 2 door 6g Bronco. I find them repulsive to the eye. I joke that I need the 4 doors for more women but the truth is that I feel like Ford greatly missed the mark on the 2 door and I think they look stupid.

Again... Missing all of my points.... You seem to think I am attacking you.

The only reason you would get defensive is insecurity. Live your life.... I just do not need to keep reading about it... I do not celebrate it.

AND yes... you do keep bring it up in many different conversations. That is not discrete, that is pleading for conformation and praise. You do not grasp that, I understand. I only point it out so that you are aware of the hypocracy.

You mention jealousy and being "butthurt".... Dude, get over yourself. And then you tell me I need to "heal" and have advice on how to do that... I am not the one telling someone else to "change".... I simply mentioned that mentioning your lifestyle over and over (multiple different threads) is NOT being discrete, it is in fact the exact opposite. COMPREHENDO????

Back to topic.... 4 doors are a fine vehicle. I like them, I prefer a two door for my situation. I prefer the look of a two door but I value the "look" much less than I value the advantages of the short wheel base. I recognize that there are disadvantages to the short wheel base as well. 20 years ago I would have been compelled to purchase the 4 door for personal reasons. I think you will find I do not post derogatory comments about the 4 door. I do post pro 2 door comments though.

End all be all I think they are both great choices.

 

[skyhunter]

I don’t hate people

Is that Wimbledon White?

 

[skyhunter]

I can't post face pics of people on the internet for obvious reasons, especially as my wife and I and 2 of the other ENM ladies are discreet about that aspect of our lives. I guess I could blur out faces on the pics, but I'd want to get clearance from any/all of them first.
What's your favorite flavor? Blonde, brunette or Brazilian since that's my current selection. Wife is brunette too.

Only they are really interested in seeing their own faces. : ) I still don't know my wife's eye color.

 

[HighVelocity]

I guess we need a 'Swingers swap in their station wagons' sticker as well.

 

[Oldhippie]

I think ”rug” is the only person; on this forum that I know their sexual lifestyle…why is that?

 

[HalfmuleFarmer]

What is weird is that someone cant take the first peel off of the onion of possibilities of having a sticker like that.
The sticker is not to proclaim what hill you'll die on.
The sticker is not to try to sway those around you to join in your mania/cult.
(That's two layers)

It's there as as rye humor.
Rye being the slight provocation that leads a person to think of how something stated as bad is actually a bit of a boost to your small moment behind that vehicle...because you realize someone is being cute or rye or silly or flippant, just.for.you.
If you realize;
Contemptuous, shared misery, psychosis;
You're the prblem.

It takes a genuine sadness to not be able to peel a statement back, to not be able to extrapolate a not so deep meaning...or it comes from having the very worst view of life imaginable...or the worst education...

Some of you really think
"My dumb kid can whip your honor student's ass"
Sticker
Is an open threat worthy of a call to police.

Would you be antagonized if there really wasn't a
Baby On Board?

Are you being wry? If not, make mine a pastrami with swiss.

 

[ducksface]

Are you being wry? If not, make mine a pastrami with swiss.

Indeed.
(I was waiting impishauntly for someone to peel that onion)
[She is your mom's short sister]

I don't like rye because of the
Carriedaway seed.
People seem to get carriedaway when they don't understand rye humor.

 

[Bronks9]

Is that Wimbledon White?

Desert sand

 

[not on the rug]

Again... Missing all of my points.... You seem to think I am attacking you.

The only reason you would get defensive is insecurity. Live your life.... I just do not need to keep reading about it... I do not celebrate it.

AND yes... you do keep bring it up in many different conversations. That is not discrete, that is pleading for conformation and praise. You do not grasp that, I understand. I only point it out so that you are aware of the hypocracy.

You mention jealousy and being "butthurt".... Dude, get over yourself. And then you tell me I need to "heal" and have advice on how to do that... I am not the one telling someone else to "change".... I simply mentioned that mentioning your lifestyle over and over (multiple different threads) is NOT being discrete, it is in fact the exact opposite. COMPREHENDO????

Back to topic.... 4 doors are a fine vehicle. I like them, I prefer a two door for my situation. I prefer the look of a two door but I value the "look" much less than I value the advantages of the short wheel base. I recognize that there are disadvantages to the short wheel base as well. 20 years ago I would have been compelled to purchase the 4 door for personal reasons. I think you will find I do not post derogatory comments about the 4 door. I do post pro 2 door comments though.

End all be all I think they are both great choices.

So set me to ignore and move on with your life. It's weird that of all of the awful things happening in the world, that THIS is what is living rent-free in your head.

It's also weird that you are passing judgement. Living your life in judgement is a surefire way to find suffering. Be curious about life. Ask questions. Gather info. You've done none of those things. You've sat 3000 miles away and judged me, a man whom you know absolutely nothing about. I find this behavior to be unusual, especially in a grown man.

Again, talking about topical crap (2 women in my truck) is being discreet. You know nothing about me, my life, my family or any of these women. Like someone else mentioned, I could literally be making all of this up of I wanted to since literally no actual details have been shared. You live in Idaho. I live in NJ. Does it really matter if I mention a 3sum or anything else. What info am I putting out there that isn't discreet?

I feel like you're so hung up on the semantics of the definition of the word discreet that you're missing the point of any of this.

 

[not on the rug]

I think ”rug” is the only person; on this forum that I know their sexual lifestyle…why is that?

Plenty of forum members post pics of themselves with their wives/husbands/significant others. One member posts pics of his topless wife here (I forget who). I'm most certainly not the only person here who you know their lifestyle.

 

[HalfmuleFarmer]

I’m suppressing a wry sandwich pun.

 

[HalfmuleFarmer]

One member posts pics of his topless wife here (I forget who).

This guy (and gal):

https://www.bronco6g.com/forum/thre...-all-the-way-topless-but-the-wife-was.111658/

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