Wife lost all memory.

[not on the rug]

No. Not with her. Apparently you are not familiar with OCD. I really shouldn’t have this vehicle.

I'm very familiar with disordered thinking and disordered behavior. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder isn't something to joke about. Disordered thinking/behavior means that it is interfering with a normal existence. A little cognitive behavior therapy or coaching could go a long way with that. You can learn a ton about it on your own if you choose to do so.

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[not on the rug]

I didn't know that song but I looked up the lyrics. Right on

 

[Notmattwong]

Interesting...I haven't seen a single post like that or any type or misogyny whatsoever. Speaking facts about reality or personal experience is not misogyny. Misogyny is some sort of hatred or prejudice against women. I haven't seen anyone say anything that meets that definition.

"I've noticed that women in my life tend to lie" is not misogyny. "Women are dumb and need to be in the kitchen" would be misogyny.
Same as "I've noticed that men in my life tend to have anger issues" is not misandry, while "men are abusive fools who need to be controlled/manipulated" would be.

A "wife bad" post is not misogyny.

You wrote two novels to defend yourself after I mention people are complaining about their wives in here. Maybe try marital counseling and don’t air your dirty laundry to the internet.

 

[not on the rug]

You wrote two novels to defend yourself after I mention people are complaining about their wives in here. Maybe try marital counseling and don’t air your dirty laundry to the internet.

That's a weird take. Definitely not what happened at all, but that's the internet for ya.

I haven't aired any dirty laundry either, so maybe you're confusing me with someone else?

 

[Notmattwong]

That's a weird take. Definitely not what happened at all, but that's the internet for ya.

I haven't aired any dirty laundry either, so maybe you're confusing me with someone else?

yeah if you weren’t saying anything misogynistic, keep scrolling. My first comment wasn’t directed at you. But if you felt personally attacked, that’s on you. Again, you said you’ve got an amazing marriage.

 

[not on the rug]

yeah if you weren’t saying anything misogynistic, keep scrolling. My first comment wasn’t directed at you. But if you felt personally attacked, that’s on you. Again, you said you’ve got an amazing marriage.

I didn't "feel attacked" in any way whatsoever. I guess it's just the rational, logical side of me that feels the need to step in and correct people when I see people mis-use terms like misogyny or racism or whatever other buzzword is going around these days.

 

[Notmattwong]

I didn't "feel attacked" in any way whatsoever. I guess it's just the rational, logical side of me that feels the need to step in and correct people when I see people mis-use terms like misogyny or racism or whatever other buzzword is going around these days.

I mean if you want me to single your posts out, I can. You psycho-analyzed women being “trained by men”, then shared your wife’s personality traits that you had to change, then mention men speaking their minds about “BS” that women bring. I can’t imagine your wife would feel warm and fuzzy hearing any of this. I would say it’s closer to misogyny than not.
I guess I feel the need to step in and call out the “good ole boys”.

 

[TPadden72]

A "wife bad" post is not misogyny.

It's more of seeking validation or retaliation by taking a personal, private relationship public, open to strangers ridicule. Talk about loosing a partner's trust...

Tom

 

[not on the rug]

I mean if you want me to single your posts out, I can. You psycho-analyzed women being “trained by men”, then shared your wife’s personality traits that you had to change, then mention men speaking their minds about “BS” that women bring. I can’t imagine your wife would feel warm and fuzzy hearing any of this. I would say it’s closer to misogyny than not.
I guess I feel the need to step in and call out the “good ole boys”.

It doesn't seem like you know or care to understand the definition of misogyny. That's completely your prerogative.

My wife would be happy to join in on this conversation at any point in time. Any questions you'd like to direct to her? I'll relay them to her via text right now and she'd be glad to answer.

Btw..my "fixing" it involved me suggesting therapy and relationship coaching, which she reluctantly agreed to but finally found solace in, learned a massive amount about herself, cured her anxiety and has lived happily ever after. You make it sound like I threatened her with violence or something.

 

[not on the rug]

It's more of seeking validation or retaliation by taking a personal, private relationship public, open to strangers ridicule. Talk about loosing a partner's trust...

Tom

This thread isn't about me and wasn't started by me Tom. The OP, who may have OCD and anger issues is the one who called himself out along the way. It was his personal, private relationship that he was airing out on the internet.

Maybe you and notmattwong should be addressing your concerns with him instead?

 

[Notmattwong]

It doesn't seem like you know or care to understand the definition of misogyny. That's completely your prerogative.

My wife would be happy to join in on this conversation at any point in time. Any questions you'd like to direct to her? I'll relay them to her via text right now and she'd be glad to answer.

Btw..my "fixing" it involved me suggesting therapy and relationship coaching, which she reluctantly agreed to but finally found solace in, learned a massive amount about herself, cured her anxiety and has lived happily ever after. You make it sound like I threatened her with violence or something.

I’ll leave you be, you’ve typed enough for all of us today. You obviously have some internal battles you need to work through on your own. Bless your heart.

 

[TPadden72]

This thread isn't about me and wasn't started by me Tom. The OP, who may have OCD and anger issues is the one who called himself out along the way. It was his personal, private relationship that he was airing out on the internet.

Maybe you and notmattwong should be addressing your concerns with him instead?

Now you are getting paranoid.

My post was a simple reply to your: A "wife bad" post is not misogyny." It is in agreement with your "need to step in and correct people when I see people mis-use terms like misogyny".

Tom

 

[Notmattwong]

Now you are getting paranoid.

My post was a simple reply to your: A "wife bad" post is not misogyny." It is in agreement with your "need to step in and correct people when I see people mis-use terms like misogyny".

Tom

bro felt personally attacked and started blind firing at everyone

 

[Valhalla]

Bless your heart.

Just another example of Texas thinking they are the south. @not on the rug , in case you didn't know that is an insult, veiled to outsiders, but an insult. Here is some unrelated metal.

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