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So set me to ignore and move on with your life. It's weird that of all of the awful things happening in the world, that THIS is what is living rent-free in your head.

Again, talking about topical crap (2 women in my truck) is being discreet. You know nothing about me, my life, my family or any of these women. Like someone else mentioned, I could literally be making all of this up of I wanted to since literally no actual details have been shared. You live in Idaho. I live in NJ. Does it really matter if I mention a 3sum or anything else. What info am I putting out there that isn't discreet?

I feel like you're so hung up on the semantics of the definition of the word discreet that you're missing the point of any of this.
Look I have not "ignored" you because you do offer valuable insight. You seem to be a nice guy and somewhat intelligent...(please take that as a rather significant complement)...

I am not having any issues with the definition of Discrete The word discrete means separate, distinct, or made of individual parts that are not connected. It describes things that stand alone as their own units rather than flowing together in a continuous line.

You sir seem to be the one in denial here. You have not kept your life style choices separate or distinct from these discussions. I merely pointed out the hypocrisy in calling out you choices as being discrete. I also pointed out that calling it out over and over screams of attention seeking. I don't need you to deny this again to understand that you do not see it that way. We disagree.

As far as others showing pics of significant others etc... I find that also to be attention seeking and to be honest it comes across as insecurity.

Mentioning a 3sum or swinging in the middle of conversations about vehicles is not keeping individual and unrelated parts of your life separate from your conversations about vehicles. So no, it is not discrete, by definition.

I do not care how you chose to live your life... BUT if you are going to bring that conversation here then you open yourself up to comment. You are the one that seems to have a problem with my comments. If you do not like my comments about the topic do not bring up the topic.

The biggest problem I do have with mentioning it here on this platform is that younger members can be influenced by the "locker room" banter. Praise and adoration are often heaped by less mature individuals who do not understand that the vast majority of these arraignments end in heartache pain and despair. I can only speak anecdotally but I have seen a multitude of examples. Locally we had a whole community flying the inverted pineapple.... It is rather unfortunate the whole thing seemed to implode and there were several instances of violence. And yes I personally knew some of those involved.

If it works for you fine.... I don't care. but when you come to a forum like this and wave it around as something everyone should aspire to... I take umbrage. NOT for hearing of such life style... I could care less.... BUT because as we have seen by some of the responses to your occasional mentions I believe it sends a message to others that (in my opinion) should they follow in your footsteps will more often than not be detrimental to their happiness.

I am NOT telling you to stop or to change your ways. like you mentioned it makes no difference in my life. I am suggesting that being discrete about something means keeping it separate from posts on a vehicle forum.

I do value your opinion and insight when it comes to the Bronco....
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IF you were being discrete I would NOT EVEN KNOW about your choices.
I am not having any issues with the definition of Discrete
I’ve got no dog in this fight (poor choice of metaphor?), but you’re looking for the word discreet — it’s a different word (with a different meaning) from discrete. I’m not trying to be rye. When did this forum get overrun by homophones?!
 
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Discreet also means careful or quiet. I'm careful and quiet about my arrangements where it matters. Even though I'm anonymously on the internet here on the Bronco forum, I'm still operating with a level of discretion by not sharing specifics of my life, partners, etc. In my closer circle, I practice even more discretion.

I'm not waving anything around as something everyone should aspire to. What I am doing is being authentic to myself. I'd encourage everyone on earth to be authentic to themselves. The true pain and suffering of our human condition comes from living a life that isn't your own. Living with masks on. Living someone else's life. How many people do you know that grew up raised a certain way, but rigid parents. Forced into a religion, lifestyle or sexuality that isn't truly them. Working jobs they hate. Married to spouses they dislike. Living a life of misery.

I believe in tbe opposite. Hell, I coach people on the opposite. One of my businesses is literally working as a coach for people to find their authentic selves and live the life they deserve. I work with millionaire executives, couples, aspiring professionals and lately, specifically men. My men's program has grown by leaps and bounds recently. Men are tired of being crammed into boxes that were built by someone else.

I hope any young person reading my posts learns and understands that they don't have to fit into someone else's mold. If they get married one day and as a couple they decide to spice it up from time to time with consenting women, what's wrong with that?

This is most definitely not "locker room banter." I'm not saying anything lewd or crude or inappropriate in any way at all. I'm not posting inappropriate pictures. I'm not sharing racy details. What about this should be reserved for the locker room?

As for any sort of pineapple arrangement ending badly, I think your experience is anecdotal. Most of the people I've encountered over the years are happy and healthy and fulfilled, living genuine lives. Yes, some people do these things from a place of insecurity and other impure reasons. Can't prevent that. Heck, 50+ % of marriages fail and many more are totally miserable. Are you against marriage? Statistically (not just anecdotally) it's a terrible idea.
 

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And I find that attention seeking..... What does that have to do with Broncos? I find it very immature. Someone forgot to grow up.
This is such a strange and unusual take on two grown and consenting adults having fun. Nobody is hurt by it but you.

It's starting to seem like a lot of your viewpoints are based on some sort of uber conservative religious beliefs. Perhaps if that lady was wearing a full length gown and bonnet or a burqa it would suit your sensibilities better?
 

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I’ve got no dog in this fight (poor choice of metaphor?), but you’re looking for the word discreet — it’s a different word (with a different meaning) from discrete. I’m not trying to be rye. When did this forum get overrun by homophones?!
Very good point... Probably why I the only class I ever failed was spelling... (in the forth grade) but it has never been my strong suit.

so... Descreet is actually even more direct.... Keeping Secrets: Not talking about private things.

I love the rye comment. But I enjoy dark rye... and yes I can get carried away with the seeds...
 

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Ford Bronco Whaaaat! This hurts. A little. 1000011831
 

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This is such a strange and unusual take on two grown and consenting adults having fun. Nobody is hurt by it but you.

It's starting to seem like a lot of your viewpoints are based on some sort of uber conservative religious beliefs. Perhaps if that lady was wearing a full length gown and bonnet or a burqa it would suit your sensibilities better?
All three of you in full length gowns or I'm out.
Bonnet are mandatory or I'm just not playing.
And
it's not real kink without kin.
 

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All three of you in full length gowns or I'm out.
Bonnet are mandatory or I'm just not playing.
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it's not real kink without kin.
I read that and spit beer all over the place. Good thing I was sitting outside
 

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And I find that attention seeking..... What does that have to do with Broncos? I find it very immature. Someone forgot to grow up.
The very point of EVERY post on the internet is to seek attention. You post to draw people's attention to whatever point your are making with your post. Why would anyone post if they knew nobody was going to see it. That is cray cray.
 
 





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