I'm one of them. I have also left the key fob in the car for my wife, son and daughter before. Many times I have wanted entry to my vehicle while outside and instead of going in the house I just use the pad. I think maybe you understand the value of them more when you have had them before?
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Yes, Ford should have all the colors of the rainbow stitching available for all to have and order. C'mon man, it's at the very least an option for those that don't like it. I have done this before and you are incorrect with your assumption that it will look like crap. You're more than welcome to...