The HOSS sounds pretty cool, but I have plans for my own suspension upgrades.
I have a lot of pride in my BD. I think you will be happy with it. If you don't go with the BL, you can always get a pair of manual disconnects (that don't reengage @ >20 mph, or whatever it is set to) for a lot less...
I am sure everyone on here is a perfect driver with tons of experience on obstacles just like that one.
these are really good people. this same bronco lead our trail and winched me out of a slick spot just a couple of days later.