Are you talking in terms of trying to get the hardtop to lie flat with the JTop installed? I have the same issue, so i just take the JTop off when putting the hardtop back on since it's a pretty quick process.
I have had this one for a couple of years. It's been great. Currently $380.
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I am with you on the rear settings. Mine is currently the same as you , and I plan to go ahead and go all the way down. Hopefully this holiday weekend.